What Are You Going to Make Life Mean For You?
We have choices in life. We can look for the lesson and beauty
in every single thing that happens to us. Or we can go through
life kicking and screaming about everything that has, is, could,
or will happen to us. Life is meant to be a journey, something
we learn from and grow from. It is meant to be a journey of
self discovery and joy, but you have to choose.
Two sisters growing up in the same house. Their mother
is an excellent seamstress and sews for many people in the
town. She also make all of the clothes her two daughters wear
which gives her great pride in dressing them in the latest
fashions at a fraction of the cost. The mother loves seeing her
daughters in her creations. Sewing for her daughters is an act
of love for the mother.
One sister loves the fact that her mother sews her such
beautiful clothes. She calls then her “designer” clothes. She
feels the love and care that goes into each new garment. She
feels so special putting on the new dresses and showing her
friends.
The other sister hates the fact that her mother sews her
clothes. She feels others will think they can’t afford store
bought clothes. She hates being even slightly different than
her friends even though it means she has nicer clothes. She is
embarrassed and feels that if her mother really cared she would
buy her clothes from the store.
Two sisters living under the same roof, experiencing the exact
same circumstances in different ways. One has chosen to make
one meaning out of it and the other, a totally different
meaning.
We have choices too. How will we see things in our lives, our
businesses, relationships, our abundance or lack of it. What
are we willing to do to see the positive side of the coin. More
to the point, what are we willing to do to change how we see
things?
Scientist have been studying vibrational frequencies of negative
and positive emotions. There are instruments that can measure
these frequencies. When we hold a negative though for more than
17 seconds our energy vibration goes down, and when we hold a
positive thought for more than 17 seconds the vibration is at a
higher frequency.
Ever been around someone who was depressed and seeing the
negative? We all have. They can literally drain our energy if
we hang out with them. On the other hand, a positive person,
can lift our spirits just being in the room with them. Is it
any wonder that positive people attract good things and people
into their lives? And the negative people seem to attract every
negative thing to them. Every time you talk to them they have
another poor me story. It’s their choice and yours too. What
will you choose to make out of your life.
“It is never to late to become the person you were meant to be”
Sheri Bardo / Life Coach
www.authenticallyu.com
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You Must Become That Which You Want To Attract In Your Life."
Have you ever wished that people would be kinder to each other?
That people would be more honest with each other? That people
did what they said they were going to do? That relationships
were deeper. That there really was
such a thing as
unconditional love? That people would see you for who you
really are?
Anything that is important to you, must start with you first.
If you want kindness, you must be kinder to every person you
meet. In being kinder to others you will attract kindness to
yourself from others.
You must be honest in each encounter with others. This action
will attract more people into your life who are honest. Keep
your word to others and you will attract more people in your
life who will keep their word to you.
Offer the real you in relationships first, allowing yourself to
be transparent and deeply connected then others will be
transparent and deeply connected with you. Create a “safe place
for others” and there will be safe places for you.
If you long for unconditional love for yourself, give it to
others, it will find its way back to you.
If you long to have others see you for who you really are
inside, see others for who they really are inside: a unique,
one of a kind creation waiting to be seen for who they really
are. The spirit side of you and others (the “real”, Authentic,
God created side) is not self centered, needy, greedy, lacking,
fearful angry, bitter, or hurtful, but loving, giving, open,
kind, curious, abundant, prosperous, creative, intuitive,
playful, helpful, generous, joyful, and amazing. If you
start looking for those qualities in others and help them find
them in themselves, You will recognize all of that in
yourself.
Have you ever been at a dance and the music starts, but no one
wants to be the first out on the floor…………. But as soon as the
first couple takes that step onto the floor, others quickly
follow and soon many are dancing with them. Life is like
that. Be the first on the dance floor of life and soon there
will be many others dancing with you. You will find a community
of like minded spirits, who want to dance the dance of life with
you.
Life is really about our own journey to truth and wholeness. Our
choices and how we see things shape our world and attract
what we have in our life. So if you do not like what you have
in your life right now, begin today by being 100% responsible
for the rest of your life and re-create your life and what you
attract into it by being what you want others to be for you, the
rest will follow effortlessly.
What we are not getting in our lives is a reflection or a mirror
of what we are not being or giving out.
Be loving with yourself. Don't judge what you do not like about
what you see reflected back to you in your life. Just notice it
and get clear on what you would like to be different. Then let
it start with you giving out what you want to see.
About the Author
I am a Life Coach. I have a background in business, sales, public relations, and spiritual counseling. I own and operate Authentically You Retreats and Life Coaching .
My Life Purpose is to live a life of Authenticity, Spiritual Truth, Abundance, Creativity and Celebration of all life's possibilities.
I believe there is greatness in each individual and my joy is to take others on the adventure of finding their own greatness.
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